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SOCIAL THINKING
Most of us share a great desire to understand the other people
in our lives. From our first encounters with others, we begin
to form impressions of their character and capabilities. We develop
attitudes about them, including sometimes an attraction to them
that may evolve into more personal relationships. We create personal
theories to explain their behavior, hoping to be more confident
in predicting how they will respond to us. And sometimes we think
about them not as individuals, but more simply as members of some
social group: We respond to them based on our prejudices and stereotypes.
These processes are part of social cognition, <glossary term>
our attempt to actively interpret and make sense of information
about other persons.
Perceiving Other Persons
Imagine that a car pulls up next to you at a stoplight. The driver
is a 20-something male wearing a black leather jacket and mirrored
sunglasses. He is driving a recent model BMW convertible and he
has a cell phone that appears to be permanently attached to his
ear. He repeatedly revs the engine as he waits for the light to
change and he never once looks in your direction. Can you picture
him? How hard was it to form an impression of him? How long did
it take? Is he patient or impatient? Is he kind or cruel? Would
he prefer to golf or to bowl? Notice that from just a few words,
we are able to form rich impressions of another person. For most
of us, it takes little more than a glance or a casually spoken
word to give rise to a host of thoughts and beliefs.
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